Adult toys are a useful addition to a couple's sex play: to accept the pressure off a guys erection and to provide erotic stimulation that doesn't necessarily cause orgasm. However, many gimmicks bought in embarrassment and ignorance are never used. Lying on her back exposes the vulva and could be a good position for a girl to offer intercourse. But orgasm is achieved from the combined stimulation of fingers, pelvic muscles and body weight on the clitoral organ. A female uses a thrusting motion to masturbate which involves lying to be with her front. This is incompatible with using a vibrator.
Companies sell bondage gear and then we naturally think that they must reach your goals in using them to masturbate to orgasm. These the latest fashions are driven by our fascination with hi-tech accessories supported by marketing campaigns. A vibrator can be a piece of hard plastic. Unlike the true flesh and blood penis, there's nothing inherently erotic with regards to a gadget. I'm aroused by my lover by focusing on his erection, his mind and his ability to ejaculate.
Using a vibrator to masturbate may be the only female orgasm technique that doesn't mirror sexual climax technique used by men. A vibrator offers a tingly sensation but (unlike the flexible pressure of fingers) this doesn't massage the erectile tissue (and the flow of blood) of the pelvic region behind the clitoris and labia. There is nothing wrong with girls enjoying pleasant vibrations however question whether such stimulation results in orgasm.
Only women ever attend masturbation clinics, which try to increase women's self-esteem by giving knowledge about sexual anatomy (their own rather than a man's). Basic concepts like feeling confident with your own nudity and knowing your own genitals are fundamental to enjoying sex of any kind. A guy doesn't have a tendency to need help with these issues because he enjoys observing which stimulates his penis.
Only mammals hire a thrusting technique to mate, which extends the male's pleasure (not the female's). Some women report that a masturbator is more effective than the usual penis in stimulating these phones orgasm. But women can't evolve an ability to orgasm that will depend on the invention of the gadget hundreds of thousands of years following your emergence of our own species.